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My family member is in the hospital and I can’t get to the temple to buy a healing omamori \u2014 the distance alone makes it impossible. Sitting in a waiting room feeling useless is starting to wear on me. I’ve heard about a “proxy pilgrimage” where someone can go pray on your behalf. Is that actually a thing?<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

Someone you love is in the hospital, and you can’t fix any of it.<\/p>\n

That powerlessness is genuinely heavy. You can visit, you can hold their hand, you can talk about nothing in particular \u2014 but the moment you step back into the hallway, you’re reminded that praying is the only thing you actually have left to offer<\/span>. A quiet, gnawing helplessness follows you home.<\/p>\n

When people in Japan couldn’t reach the temples themselves, they used to turn to something called daisan<\/em> \u2014 proxy prayer.<\/p>\n

You ask someone else to make the visit, offer the prayer, and carry your wish for recovery. Having someone stand in for you at a sacred place is a form of devotion that’s been practiced for over a thousand years<\/span> \u2014 and a Shikoku proxy pilgrimage falls squarely in that lineage.<\/p>\n

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What you’ll learn in this article<\/div>\n
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